Free Workshop at Northeastern University November 17 to November 21

November 13th, 2008

There is a free workshop being hosted by Northeastern University as part of Global Entrepreneurship Week.

Click here for full schedule.

Some interesting topics on the schedule…

Consensus Building Institute

July 25th, 2007

Dear Friends and Colleagues,

I have very exciting news to share with all of you! I recently accepted the position of Senior Associate of Assessment, Coaching, Training at the Consensus Building Institute in Cambridge. It is a role that I am extremely excited about with an organization that I feel fortunate to be a part of. For me, it appears to be the perfect culmination of my experience as a mediator and organizational developer and leverages my education in dispute resolution, psychology, and law.

I want to say thank you to all of you for the various roles you have played in helping me get here. Without your support and encouragement, this opportunity simply would not have been available to me.

Some background…

The Consensus Building Institute (CBI) is a not-for-profit originally founded by Professor Lawrence Susskind out of the Harvard-MIT Program on Negotiation. My role will primarily be focussed on assisting corporate clients with enhancing their capacity to build creative, value-added, negotiations to further their inter and intra organizational challenges.

CBI’s Mission

The Consensus Building Institute improves the way leaders, advocates, experts and communities make public and organizational decisions. We use innovative strategies to engage diverse stakeholders, identify shared goals, manage conflicting interests, achieve joint gains, and build productive working relationships. We work with government agencies, community groups, businesses, advocacy organizations, researchers and educators.
Our work spans:
• Economic, environmental and social issues in the U.S. and around the world
• Organizational management in corporations, public agencies and non-profits
• Conflict resolution education in schools


What CBI does:

The Consensus Building Institute (CBI) improves the way leaders use negotiations to make organizational decisions, achieve agreements, and manage multiparty conflicts and planning efforts. We use proven principles, processes, and techniques that improve group decision-making on complex public and organizational issues. We use our substantive experience and innovative strategies to assist clients worldwide in three core areas:

Facilitate public collaboration
Strengthen organizations
Build knowledge

Whether managing important public issues, building organizational capacity, or expanding knowledge, CBI helps our clients make better decisions and get things done.

Feel free to contact me at the new information below. I will still be reachable through my jgordon@potsadr.com email address so no need to delete anything from your address book or contacts.

Joshua A. Gordon
Senior Associate
Assessment, Coaching & Training Services
The Consensus Building Institute
238 Main Street, Suite 400
Cambridge, MA 02142
617.492.1414 (Office)
617.492.1919 (Fax)
440.388.1079 (eFax)
http://www.cbitraining.org
http://www.cbuilding.org

How to stifle your creativity in 10 easy steps!

April 3rd, 2007

How to stifle your creativity in 10 easy steps

~ Courtesy of Lifehack.org

  1. Be afraid. Be very afraid. There’s nothing like fear to put a stop to any kind of creativity: fear of getting it wrong; fear of what other people may say; fear of embarrassment; fear of change. The more afraid that you are, the less creative you will be—and the less you will act on any creative thoughts that manage to break through the curtain of anxiety.
  2. Remind yourself of all the times that you failed in the past. Keep them fresh in your mind. Dwell on them—the pain, the shame, the hurt, the way others sniggered. Let your imagination go to work and really re-live those cringe-making moments. That should stop you ever trying again.
  3. Never waste time. Stay constantly busy. Never mind what the tasks are, just keep them coming thick and fast. Time is money, isn’t it? There’s no mileage in leaving any moments free from gainful activity—especially for self-indulgent activities like day dreaming or reflecting on what has happened. If you fill every waking moment with busyness, you won’t have to worry about creative thoughts sneaking up on you. There will be no space for them.
  4. Always try to fit in. Be much more than a good team player—be the person who never, ever rocks the boat. Whatever seems to be the majority opinion, go with it. People who have ideas of their own can face suspicion or—horror of horrors—criticism and dislike by the majority. Don’t risk being on the wrong side. The minute that it’s clear what the majority (or the most powerful players) want, that’s where your opinions and thoughts must be.
  5. Stick to what you know. Tried and true is what’s right for you. Change and novelty involve risk, and risks can go wrong. If you give in to entertaining innovative thoughts, you may find that what you’ve been doing all these years isn’t as good as you thought. That would upset you and maybe force you to do something risky, like altering your habits or changing your viewpoint. So don’t be rash. Caution must be your watchword at all times. Whatever that new idea is, let it wait a while—say a decade or so—before considering it seriously. You’ll be surprised how many will go away in far less time than that.
  6. Always defer to authority. The people in charge must know what they are doing, or they wouldn’t hold the positions that they do. It would be presumptuous to inject any of your own ideas, when they clearly have all the answers. Rules exist to be obeyed, not challenged. If you always do exactly as you are told, you won’t ever risk disapproval from your betters.
  7. Don’t ask stupid questions. Best of all, don’t ask any questions. They only get people into trouble. Folk who develop the nasty habit of questioning things may upset the status quo, and that simply causes trouble and disruption. Things are as they are. There’s no point wasting time or effort wondering whether they ought to be different in some way. Only dissidents and weirdoes don’t understand that simple fact.
  8. Always listen to your Inner Critic. It’s there to stop you making a fool of yourself. Whatever it says, pay close attention. It will unfailingly point out how useless, pointless, and silly those creative ideas really are. It will explain to you that they will never work, and how expressing them will only make you a laughingstock. It’s your friend. Trust it implicitly.
  9. Leave thinking to the experts. There’s no point in bothering them with with your pathetic notions or observations. If it was an idea worth having, the experts would already have thought about it. They have all kinds of qualifications and can use long words too. If you think that some change might be needed (and you can’t simply ignore such a disruptive idea), hire expensive, expert consultants to do the thinking. They’ll quickly tell you whatever you want to hear, then add what others are doing, so you can copy them. Best of all, if it goes wrong, you can first of all say that what you did was follow industry best practice (whatever that means); and, if that doesn’t disarm any criticism, you can blame the consultants.
  10. Keep it simple, stupid. The worst thing about creative ideas is that they so often make life more complicated. The best way to stay on an even keel is to keep everything very, very simple. Find one or two rules of thumb and stick to them like glue. Don’t listen to anyone who tries to tell you that there aren’t simple, easy answers to every situation. There are. It’s just that, for some odd reason, they don’t work very often—if ever. Still, persistence is a great virtue. If you stay with these simple, superficial approaches long enough, one or two are bound to work in some circumstance, sometime. Then you can point out to the clever dicks that you were right all along. Why mess up your head with learning? It’s learning that allows creative ideas in the first place. Anyway, learning is for children. Adults like you don’t need it.

What is your situation?

May 26th, 2006

Each situation is unique. Part of the Solution ADR Services strives to help you to understand what options are available and ensure that you select the service(s) most consistent with achieving your goals. Below are some common situations and possible services. Ultimately, the best option is to contact us to discuss your particular challenge and to understand what options may be available.

  • I work in a school and we are experiencing conflict between students.

Mediation - Conciliation - Training - Organizational Development / Process Engineering

  • I need help running an important meeting efficiently.

Facilitation

  • I am experiencing problems with my landlord / tenant.

Mediation - Conciliation - Negotiation - Facilitation

  • My condo association is having problems.

Mediation - Conciliation - Negotiation - Facilitation - Training

  • I am having a dispute with someone online.

Online Dispute Resolution

  • I am a dispute resolution professional and need trainers to assist with my upcoming training.

Training

  • I coach a sports team and we are having conflict on the team.

Mediation - Facilitation - Training

  • We are going through a divorce and are looking for assistance.

Mediation - Negotiation

  • I am having problems with my teenager and need some help.

Mediation

  • I am experiencing problems with my housemate.

Mediation - Negotiation - Facilitation

  • My organization needs to prepare for Sarbanes - Oxley Certification.

Organizational Development / Process Engineering

  • My organization’s projects require heroic efforts to be completed on-time, under budget, with the desired quality.

Organizational Development / Process Engineering

  • I am experiencing conflict with a co-worker, boss, or other workplace relationship.

Mediation - Conciliation - Negotiation - Facilitation - Training - Organizational Development / Process Engineering

  • Our Information Technology projects are not well run.

Organizational Development / Process Engineering

  • Our company is seeking to obtain advanced certification under the Capability Maturity Model (CMM).

Organizational Development / Process Engineering

  • I am having problems with my neighbors.

Mediation - Conciliation - Negotiation - Facilitation

  • I am a dispute resolution professional and am looking for tools to assist me.

Toolbox

  • I am involved in a custody dispute involving my child, parent, or other loved one.

Mediation - Negotiation - Facilitation

  • I am involved in a contract dispute.

Mediation - Conciliation - ODR - Negotiation

  • I am looking for conflict resolution training material.

Training - Toolbox - Outside the Box / Inside the Ring

  • I need help preparing for a negotiation.

Negotiation

  • I want someone to negotiate on my behalf.

Negotiation

  • I want to implement a system to manage conflict in my organization.

Training - Organizational Development / Process Engineering

  • I need help figuring out what I need.

Services - Contact Us

  • Other…

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